Alyson's Speech

I wanted to document what Alyson can say at 20 months before I forget!

Mommy
Daddy
Saya-chan
Sean-chan
Noah-Kan
Grace
Kitty
Wanwan (dog) - she can also say doggy
Miki (hamigaki - brushing teeth)
Cherio
Dou (for budou - grapes) she also says grapes
Tou (for Tofu)
Banana
Water and Zu (for mizu)
Kirekire (wash hands)
Pen
Crayon
Chair - she can also say Isu
Dirty and Bacchii
Per (diaper)
Poon (spoon)
Milk
Juice
Kii (blankie)
Keys
Kiss
Hug
Dakko (carry me)
Otete (hands)
Head
Meme (eyes) she can also say eyes
Ohana (nose and flowers) she can also say nose, but not flowers
Cup
Panpan (bread)
Cookie
Futsu (fruites)
Gohan (rice)
Ta (onakasuita meaning hungry!)
Get down
down stairs
upstairs
door
pyon (bunny's jumping sound in Japanese)
Paon (elephant)
and these are just a few!! There are many more.

Exercise Saya

Saya had her eyes covered when I looked away for a few second!
She's working out sweats

Saya was wearing a sweat jersey today, so naturally I had to put a headband on her to complete the athletic look. She was kicking her legs as if she is doing some cardio. Later when I put her in the jumper, she was furiously jumping more than ever before. I think she was quite frustrated that no one would pick her up. Mike was late again! It's 11 pm and he's no where to be found!?

I am having a real tough time with Sean. His behavior sometimes is unbelievably bad! He would kick me, hit me for no reason (well there got a be a reason but he won't tell me!) and he would do the opposite of what I ask him to do. He is skinny but very tall and strong, so it is becoming more difficult to handle him. Is this a phase? I sure hope so. I used to watch those Super Nanny shows and it just seems sometimes that Sean is just as challenging as the kids on the show. Dr. Jensen please help!! (he's the ABA doctor) I love him very much and I just hope he returns to being a sweet boy we know very soon...

Alert Saya

I can put this whole thing in my mouth!
Finally, kept my eyes open!

Sean giving me an awkward smile. When I say "Niko~" (smile) to Sean, he kind of forces a smile.

Saya is more alert and aware of things now. She cries when I leave the room or gets furious when someone takes her toys away. She also is becoming the loudest baby yet! She's the littlest but boy her screams can shake up the house! She turns red when she screams as if she's giving all she's got. She does not like loud noises such as someone banging on the wall or any sudden scary movements. She sticks her tiny lower lip out and cries. Sean isn't particularly nice to Saya, so she's learning to protest and protect herself by screaming for me.


Sean is having a bad week. He is finally feeling better and has gone back to school since yesterday. He is having a tough time at home though. He refuses to share any toys, pushes, kicks and hits his siblings. We booked a home consultation with an Applied Behavioral Analysis expert, so I am hoping he can help us better manage his not so nice behavior. I also hate myself for losing patience with him. I really don't want to yell at him because I do believe that he just cannot help himself most of the time. But when I see him kick Saya on the head, I cannot keep my cool. Being a Mom to an autistic child is VERY HARD. But I am sure there is a way to make things easier for all of us. We shall see.

Staying Put

Noah getting his bangs trimmed -- he would have been a cute girl!



Noah loves Frank the koala bear



This week was eventful in its own terms, not a pleasant one. Sean got sick after getting the swine flu shot on Tuesday and missed school on Thursday and Friday. Turns out, his little friend in the neighborhood had a swine flu recently and he might have gotten it from him or it probably is going around the school right now. The doctor said his symptoms are consistent with swine flu, however is a mild one. The rest of the kids are fine, they haven't even coughed once. Mike had a day or two of feeling tired, but now I have the coughs and sore throat.


This means we had to postpone the trip to Minneapolis to the week after. The fee to change the flight was $$$$ and it's as if they are going to Japan. On top of this, we are having problems getting our money back from a contractor we almost hired last May. We paid him a deposit for the materials but the project got cancelled due to their initial quote being inaccurate. It looks like we may have to sue him... We are so busy as is and it's so annoying to be put in this position.


Sean's having a bad week emotionally, too. He just screams, hurts his brother and sisters (Saya, too), and just miserable. If we are to have a nervous breakdown, this week would have been a good one. I am seriously considering putting him on the gluten and casein free diet. If it makes Sean more manageable, I will do anything!! I made an appointment with a nutritionist next week, so I am planing to ask her about it.


I am just glad to say that we are starting a new week tomorrow. We will keep Sean at home for another day to see if his coughing improves. We have to make sure he gets better for the trip next week as we won't be able to afford to change the travel plans again. I can't wait for things to get back to normal because my kids like being on a routine, especially Sean. I think this out of ordinary schedule is making him very upset. Sigh...

Sean Trick or Treating at School

Forgot to post the video of Sean at school.

Happy Halloween

Family Portrait~

She is supposed to be a superhero, but is it just me that she looks bad?
Sean at circle time. Miss Nia in the middle


Sean washing his hands

Sean enjoying the cupcake!

Trick or Treating at school

Noah didn't mind the chicken costume!

Saya-chan looked cute in her bumble bee costume -- all my other kids had worn this costume!

I tried...

At Mike's building

Well, where do I start?!

The kids had a blast this Halloween, especially Sean. On Friday, he wore his Muscle Man costume to school and he was just out of his element all day having lots of fun. They had a little party at school, so I went to check it out. When I walked into his classroom, they were having a circle time singing a song. He was sitting facing the teacher and I quietly sat behind him. He was singing the apple tree song happily and he raised his hand to volunteer to stand on a little podium to do the dance! When he stood and faced me, he noticed that I was there, but he just smiled really widely and continued to sing and dance to the song. I was VERY IMPRESSED that he was participating in the activity and yet alone orderly following what he is supposed to do. This preschool business is doing him so well. After the circle time, we sat and had some Halloween snacks. They called out kids to wash their hands and Sean was the first one to line up to wash his hands!! WOW! After the little feast we went to do some trick or treating within school. Sean was so polite and well behaved, I swear he was the best one in the class. The teacher told me that Sean is just a very happy boy and he is all but smiles in school. Sean insisted on riding the school bus home, so I put him on the bus and drove home alone. It was such an eye opener that now I believe Sean is capable of doing so much more than what us parents previously thought!

After school, we changed Aly, Noah and Saya into their little costumes and drove to Mike's work. They allow kids to do trick or treating in the office every year. This year was a little quieter than normal because Mike's team had moved to the new posh building in downtown Bellevue. They had a main event at the Redmond but we did not go there this year. It was good that we didn't go to the big party because the kids would have wondered off and gotten lost. Mike's new building has a luxurious shopping center on the first few floors called Nieman and Marcus. We kind of checked it out and took some photos there. It was fun but it also was getting late so we hurried home to have dinner.

The Halloween day was a little crazy and hectic because we, as always, try to cram too much into one day. When we got home around 5:30, the neighborhood kids were already starting to knock on the doors, so we hurried and fed the kids in front of the front door so that they won't miss any action. Sean and Daddy went out to knock on the neighbor's doors after dinner while I stayed home with the babies to hand out candies. We had a medium turn out this year. I think people were planning for a rain and they had probably arranged doing something indoors. Sean had a blast though collecting candies. When he got home, he dumped his bag on the couch and proudly looking at his stash. Later, I took Noah to meet one of my new neighbors. I shared my famous chocolate zucchini cupcakes I baked earlier.

By Sunday evening, the kids were super tired and pretty cranky. I call it a success though!!

6 shots, 3 appointments, Single Parent Night

Here I am, having a hearty bowl of soup which I made earlier in the day at 10:00 PM, finally able to relax after another busy day yet. Husband's still missing in action. At 7:30 pm, I finally sent him a txt message and his reply was "sorry, will be late tonight". Well, that changes the evening plan! That means I have to bathe them and do all the bedtime routine for all four kids.

I had a crazy day from the early hours. Saya again pulled off another sleepless night, waking up at 1:30, 4:30 and 7:30 am. Saya had a 6 mos well check at 9:40 am, so after packing Sean's lunch and seeing him off, I hopped on shower to go to the clinic. At the clinic, the nurse tells me that Saya can get the H1N1 Flu vaccine on top of the regular flu shot (along with other 3 shots) and if I bring my other kids in today, they can also get the Swine Flu vaccine. I knew that the particular vaccine is in short supply, so I took Saya home and brought the twins to the clinic immediately. I've decided to wait on Sean because he already has a Flu Shot appointment on 11/3 and he can get it then.

I quickly made pork and veggie soup for dinner while Amy fed lunch to the twins, filled out the forms I am supposed to bring for Sean's Social Group Therapy at 4 pm. After Sean came home, I buckled all four children onto my minivan and rushed to the therapy appointment. I drove around for 50 minutes while Sean was in therapy (Aly was screaming at the end), picked him up and drove home singing loudly so that the kids would stop crying. Dinner for kids went easier than normal as Sean was willing to eat eagerly and so was Noah. Those two are the pickiest eaters and struggle at dinner!

So, that was my day. I still have dishes to do, toys to pick up but I am saving them for Mike :-D

Saya's Stats:

18 lbs 14 ounces 90%

28 3/4 inches long - way off the chart

The nurse said that she is the tallest 6 months old she's ever seen~